They say that the biggest sex organ is not between your legs, but between your ears.
Thus, it's no surprise that you can get turned on by what someone says to you—not just by how they physically touch you. Tell your partner what you want to do to her, and be specific. Don't say generic things like, "I can't wait to be with you.
For instance, "I'm going to lick that spot on your Describe the things she's doing that you like, such as "You're driving me insane, I just want you inside of me. It's important to make some noise as well.
When she touches you in the right spot, moan genuinely, and let her know lesbian appreciate what she's doing. Breathe loudly and say, "Oh yes, oh yes! Let her know if she should add more fingers, or keep licking in that spot—whatever lesbian is that you want her to know. This will enhance the sexual experience for both of you.
It might be hard, at first, to use sext dirty words that you want to say. We've been told especially as women that we don't talk that way. Give it a try anyway. If sext shy to talk dirty in person, try saying certain words and phrases in a video sex with sister email or text.